Thursday, July 06, 2006

Buenos Aires the cult of image Anorexia and Plastic surgery

An in depth report coming soon from a city obsessed with plastic surgery and the shocking truth about anorexia nervosa in Buenos Aires





Buenos Aires is a strange city and difficult to understand. In many aspects its a immature place where you are judged solely on the very superficial.
As a long time visitor here I have been suprised at the superstars of television who are the so called role models of Argentine society. Take a look at night time television here and you will be overwhelmed by the very blonde wafer thin loud opiniated women who dominate Buenos Aires.
Image is everything here and if you visit Buenos Aires take a walk through recoleta barrio Norte and Palermo and you will see more facelifts per km than anywhere on earth.
I remember my first trip here in the 1980s and visiting the famous La Biela near recoleta cemetery and seeing many fur clad women with the tell tale signs of recent cosmetic surgery. I know of no other city where women so soon after their facelifts go out in public with black eyes and nose bandages . There is very little shame in having any work done here and portenos feel very proud to boast to the world their recent hospilisation.
Dr Jose Juri Argentinas leading cosmetic surgeon quotes From all of which one may fairly safely conclude that there is no country on earth where beauty, by whatever means and at whatever cost, is a greater priority in life. Why? Dr Juri has, as to all questions, a perfectly clear answer. 'Five reasons,' he says. 'Because the Argentine woman is very sophisticated and engages in a great deal of social activity; because here in Buenos Aires we do not consider ourselves Latin Americans but Europeans, and so we must look and dress the part; because the philosophy of looking after yourself is fixed in the minds of Argentine girls from a very early age; because there is enormous competitiveness among "las Argentinas"; and because good looks open the doors to love and money.'

Sonia Abadi, a psychoanalyst, is in no doubt that Argentine women are special. Old enough to be Micaela's mother, at least as glamorous as the young model, and 10 times as worldly, Abadi is a handsome woman with thick, lovingly coiffured hair, dressed for work in high heels and a hint of décolletage. Buenos Aires is the city with the highest proportion of psychoanalysts to people in the world (the obsession with beauty extends to the mind too ) and she is eminent in her field. She speaks French and English, has written books and addressed numerous international conferences. She is also a recognised authority on the history and culture of the tango, a dance she performs with properly melodramatic aplomb. She is, for the over-forties at any rate, the last word in the thinking man's crumpet.
'Can it have something to do with prostitution?' is the first thing she says when I ask her why she believes it is that Argentine women drive men wild like no others. Prostitution? I said suprised but am immediately reminded of Juri's point about the competitiveness of women, and their idea of beauty as the means to find love and money. 'Yes, prostitution,' she says, defiantly, provocatively, with a knowing smile . 'There's a big tradition of it in this country, and quite a recent one too.'
She then proceeds to give me a history lesson. In the late 19th and early 20th century European immigrants poured into Argentina, a destination then with as much potential and appeal as the United States. The first wave of immigrants were overwhelmingly single men 'whose most treasured commodity', Abadi says, 'was women'. A white slave trade duly flourished, not unlike the movement of women from eastern to western Europe that we see today, but on a more massive and organised scale. Whether aware or not what they were letting themselves in for, prostitutes-to-be were shipped south, typically from Poland or France. 'If Argentina remains to this day a deeply "machista" country,' Abadi says, 'it is because of the idea entrenched in the male psyche of woman as whore.'
It is an idea apparently embedded deep in the female psyche too. 'In Argentina we have been completely au fait with all the currents of women's liberation down the years and the role we have today is of course incomparable to the one we had 100 years ago. Women are as independent economically as they are in Europe but they continue to be very carnal, very coquettish. That is where the plastic surgery comes in - one more weapon in the armoury of attraction.'
Abadi is the perfect person to talk on this subject. On the one hand she examines the phenomenon of the Argentine woman with cold, scientific detachment, and on the other she is a perfect example of the breed herself . But is there not, I ask her, some contradiction between liberation and women's enslavement with their appearance?
'No, it's all been blended into one. The Argentine woman of today is liberated but she clings to her carnal femininity. Here you're never going to see a masculinised woman, dressed in imitation of a man, with close-cropped hair. It didn't happen even at the height of the feminist movement, 20, 30 years ago. Nor are you going to see the American Barbie type. When you see an attractive woman in America you see that, like Barbie, the beauty is superficial, superimposed. For the Argentine women it is organic. Beauty is incorporated into her way of being. That's why foreign men come here and fall in love.'
They may also find (and I speak from experience, I tell her) that beneath the physical charms there lurk a lot of unresolved complications, a lot of neuroses. Hence the limitless clientele for people in her profession; hence the proposition that, while it is one thing to fall in love with an Argentine woman, it is quite another to settle into a stable long-term relationship. God made Argentine women beautiful, I put it to Abadi, but to compensate he also made them hard work.
'Yes, I would not disagree,' she replies . 'There's a lot of possessiveness, a lot of jealousy and that desire that modern women everywhere have to do and to be everything. They want to be new and liberated and independent but they don't want to abandon anything of that old seductress identity. It causes conflict and anguish, because it means - yes - that you're attempting to be dependent and independent at the same time.'
Abadi's job consists in part in helping women to deal with this dilemma. 'In Europe and America the trend has been for women who evolve in the workplace to distance themselves from their bodies, from sex, from motherhood. In Argentina, women will never let go of that because they would feel frustrated as women. Now, I sense that today in Europe and America women are coming back, seeking to recover the differences between men and women. But the point about here is that we never moved from that initial point, we've always celebrated the differences.'
Abadi cites as an example the wife of the current Argentine president, Cristina Fernandez (who, unlike Hillary Clinton or Cherie Blair, does not use her husband's name - he is called Nestor Kirchner). Fernandez is a recently elected senator , and tipped some day to become president, in the tradition of the Perons. 'Look at her,' says Abadi, who sees her as an Argentine female archetype, 'every day she is more successful in the polls and every day her hair looks more beautiful. She is a big-time politician but is very, very attentive to her appearance. She is elegant in her dress, sensual in her style and that is not only accepted as a good thing in Argentina, it is valued - by both men and women.'
Abadi has found that the Argentine look beguiles not only male visitors from other countries, but women too. 'I've got three women patients who are company presidents,' she says. 'One of them is foreign. When she arrived she looked rather severe. Today, three years on, she is a lot more feminine and sensual. Another example: at the tango club I go to we have a number of French women who come over year after year. And year after year I see their look softening, their hair getting longer...' Coquetry is the essence of it all, she says. Coquetry with a clear target. 'Men are the audience . Argentine women cannot conceive of life without men.'
Two weeks after leaving Buenos Aires I find myself drinking tea in a chateau outside Paris with the chateau's owner, a debonair man in his late fifties who speaks English like a duke. I happen to mention that I have just been to Argentina. He has been there several times too, he tells me. Whereupon, inevitably, the subject of women comes up. Not only is the chateau owner as entranced as the rest of the hoi polloi, he has gone one better. His 'lady companion' is an Argentine. And what reflections has he made on the nature of Argentine women? Much the same ones, it turns out, as Sonia Abadi. 'It's not just that they are physically quite special,' he says. 'It's much more than that. They have managed to combine that confident quality of the modern, liberated woman with that old-style feminine allure that we all love.'
What neither the French aristo nor any of the other 30-odd men I spoke to for this article said was that Argentine women's beauty was false or manufactured. Men don't notice these things. They are not alert to whether a woman has submitted herself to plastic surgery. At first glance, watching those racehorses saunter around the Florida Street paddock, or even at a second or third glance - at a party, at work, over dinner, at the beach - most men's thoughts, on encountering an attractive woman, do not turn on whether she has had a lip, nose or a breast job any more than they do on whether she has mascaraed her eyelashes or rouged her cheeks. Men's brains at such moments are functioning at a less analytical, more primitive, level.
Argentine women understand this very well, which is one reason why they are so recklessly unrepressed about going to the surgeon to have their bodies artificially enhanced. And yet, the question remains, why do they bother, since they are so beautiful in the first place? The answer is that, like their country, they are confused about their identity: are they European, Latin American, or what? And their response to this confusion is to look ravishing. To them, it's a matter of patriotic duty



25 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Who is that hot chick on your blog man .

I want to eat her for dinner.
Argentine girls are fucken hot

8:52 PM

 
Blogger miss cupcake said...

Looking forward to your in depth report! Have always been curious esp. after spending an afternoon outside La Biela watching the grande dames of Recoleta parading the latest work done.

5:32 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

did you catch the Almorzando con Mirtha Legrand that discussed anorexia & bulimia? Chiquita was more interested in fauning all over Jessica (from Showmatch?) than discussing the realities of eating disorders with the best expert at the table, the head of the adolescent programme at Hospital de Ninos...

7:59 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am a peruvian women and I would like to say that argentine women are false and materialistic .

All they care about is money and having affairs with rich men.

The most beautiful women of latin america are columbian who have the best combination of races and also the most beautiful way of speaking.

Portenas speak a terrible shrill form of spanish and smoke like chimneys

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

hah peruvian woman... you speak from jealousy, on the other hand one can establish that peruvian women (and men) are indians, uneducated, poor and thieves among other qualities..


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Anonymous Anonymous said...

To the resentful argentine women who has showed the typical argentine habit of rascism.

By the way peru has a culture 1000s of year old and a very high education system especially in Lima and Arequipa.

Argentine women are world famous for their gross insecurity gold digging characters and cold hearts.

Ask any foreign man and he will tell you that peruvian women make the best partners and wives.

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Blogger miss cupcake said...

What is it with people of this city/ country? They seize every opportunity to be racist, immature and shallow, then in the same breath tell us how sophisticated and elegant they are. Are they really living in a self made bubble or just very very thick-skinned and stupid?

The Argentine aynonmous comment leaver has done nothing but shown her true form - a silly, racist and uneducated woman.

And speaking of thieves, I think that's a Argentine speciality...few countries have Presidents, politians and citizens who have robbed the country blind to the extent like in Argentina. Sorry, people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones and when you are an uneducated racist portena living among a dan of thieves you shouldn't point fingers at your Peruvian neighbour.

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

MISS CUPCAKE

I am the portena that you have left that comment too and I like to tell you to leave our country as you are behaving like a dictator telling us how to live and how to act.

As if you are cultured yourself and your people good .

chinese supermarkets here are run by mafia and pay the bolivianos peanuts and make them work like slaves.

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Anonymous Maria said...

How Sad....I'm an Argentinian woman living in the US for the last 30yrs, due to Breast cancer I had the need to see a plastic surgeon and have breast reconstruction. How sad and upsetting to see my south american sisters bickering over who is more educated or more honest, no wonder all of South America is such a mess, when we start caring about what really matters and not the size of our breasts then maybe we will have a chance to be as smart as the rest of the world.

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Blogger miss cupcake said...

Haven't visited for a while, the same Anonymous portena was still dispensing her racist logic about other "people". Boy, this country will stay hopeless when it is populated by so many like her - totally agreed with Maria's comment.

Maybe the portena doesn't even read newspapers in her own language - both La Nacion and Clarin ran in-depth interviews on how the Chinese who run supermarkets cannot afford to have people working for peanuts because the government agents would soon rock up to their joints and close them down or ask for bribe - better pay the bolivian en blanco than pay a corrupt porteno cop.

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

we are always sorry about people like this argentinean... other argentineans (and most of us, not from Buenos aires) do believe in a free country, integrated with different cultures and all working towards the same objetive: have a nice life in this beautiful place. We wont come up if we listen to those nasty comments. we will do it as a result of hard work and honesty.

Please all try to understand... please all try do our best to grow up. we are natives here, but you will be discriminated somewhere else if someday you eventually leave... and i want to see you there.

nice to find so many people interested in Argentina, specially those who open their eyes over Palermo and San telmo limits.

it is sad to admit that argentinean women are very keen on looking good and beign thin. i might confest that i take all the care i can, but that is not my life guide...

hope that helps....!

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

we are always sorry about people like this argentinean... other argentineans (and most of us, not from Buenos aires) do believe in a free country, integrated with different cultures and all working towards the same objetive: have a nice life in this beautiful place. We wont come up if we listen to those nasty comments. we will do it as a result of hard work and honesty.
dont only look inside buenos aires, as all the capital cities, you can find the best and the worst side by side...

Please all try to understand... please all try do our best to grow up. we are natives here, but you will be discriminated somewhere else if someday you eventually leave... and i want to see you there.

nice to find so many people interested in Argentina, specially those who open their eyes over Palermo and San telmo limits.

it is sad to admit that argentinean women are very keen on looking good and beign thin. i might confess that i take all the care i can, but that is not my life guide...

hope that helps....!

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